You may be unwilling to take anyone or anything at face value these days. If experience and experimentation can't testify to something as true, then you're likely to chuck it. You don't think anyone's necessarily lying today, but you have a burning desire to know what's real and factual. Perhaps you feel you rely too much on what others say without enough testing and research on your own. However, there's no reason to let your suspicions ruin a healthy relationship. Keep in mind you don't need to reinvent the wheel every time you crave a change.