You may feel overwhelmed today by a situation that has become confusing regarding some shared resources. You could be tempted to take action on your own behind the back of the other person involved, but you would be better off directly asking them to agree to consult an outside authority figure together. The two of you may have been trying to work this out amongst yourselves out of embarrassment or fear of punishment, but another perspective will clarify things quickly and more kindly than you expect.